Maybe it's how you feel
Maybe it’s your thoughts, your body, your emotions—pulling you off course just when you’re reaching for something that matters.
Maybe it's how your relationship feels
Maybe it feels tense, distant, or stuck in the same looping arguments. When trust erodes and connection fades, even love can start to feel out of reach.
Maybe you're haunted by your past
Like shards of broken glass, the memories come back in fragments—sharp, sudden, and wounding. You try to move forward, but they keep cutting into the present, leaving you raw, depleted, and done.
We’re wounded in relationships—and we heal in them, too.
Let's begin.
Here's what I believe:
Things don’t have to stay the way they are.
Change is possible—on the inside and in the life you’re living.
You can interrupt old patterns. You can move toward what matters.
You can feel different. You can be different.
Who I Am (And Why It Matters)
Jerry Wheeler, LMHC, NCC
I’m a coach, consultant, clinical therapist, and relationship strategist based in Westfield, Indiana. I work with individuals and couples who are high-functioning on the outside—but privately worn down by the patterns they can’t seem to shake.
My approach is direct, collaborative, and emotionally honest. I’m not here to passively witness your pain—I’m here to help you name what’s really going on and interrupt what’s no longer working.
Whether it’s the weight of your own thoughts, the tension in your relationship, or the echo of something unresolved in your past—I help people move toward what actually matters to them. Not in theory. Not someday. But now, when the cost of circling has become too high to ignore.
If you’re looking for a place to vent endlessly or be told what you already know, I’m probably not your guy. But if you’re ready for depth, clarity, and traction—I’ll meet you there.
I bring 30 years of experience walking with people through hard things—as a coach, clinician, director, business owner, and now as a licensed mental health professional.
My clinical training came through The Family Institute at Northwestern University, but what truly shaped me was the work itself: helping individuals and couples untangle emotional knots, confront what’s not working, and move toward something real.
My passion has always been rooted in relationships—because that’s where we’re wounded, and that’s where we heal.